I’ve often wondered why people ask opinions.
I mean, I know why I do it.
It’s because I want to know someone’s opinion on something.
So why do other people ask for opinions…and then ignore them? I’m not talking about "do you think this makes me look good" kind of things.
I’m talking where people approach me for opinions in areas that I am considered an expert in, and then go their own way.
This has happened twice in the last month.
I probably wouldn’t be that upset about it, but after being informed they were going their own way, both times I was informed, by people who don’t have any practical experience in the areas they asked my opinion, that I didn’t know what I was talking about.
So why ask to begin with?
I grumbled to a friend of mine, and she told me that many people ask for opinions when they have already made up their mind. If the expert opinion agrees with what they had decided, it is just added support. If it doesn’t, then it becomes a matter of proving the expert wrong.
So you know what? I’m not going to be answering any requests for opinions from people I don’t really know. Unless they pay me, but that’s another story….
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